If you are demanding an apology and have no intentions of accepting said apology, you’re just trying to pull a power move and show you are in control. If you are not sorry, don’t apologize because doing so shows you lack integrity and have had no actual contrition (or “Come to Jesus”) moment.Ģ. This is how I feel for two key reasons:ġ. The only thing I will say is that even if I don’t agree with the guy, I admire him and anyone who simply hold true to what they believe and does not kowtow to pressure to apologize. No one is coming out looking good in this story. Related: Homophobic Bar Owner Goes Off On Gay Couple, Internet Goes Off On Homophobic Bar Owner Everything was Abercrombie models and pretty boys.” “I won’t apologize for it,” he insisted, “because I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that for what was going on at the time. Speaking to Mic, Perruzza said race had nothing to do with him requesting “a hot white guy” instead of a black guy in the bar’s promo material. Don't believe what a disgruntled person will put on there page.Ī photo posted by David Perruzza on at 9:10am PST We have one of the most diverse staffs and have had the same staff for years, we also are the only bar to do an event like Arabian nights not to mention the amount of money we give back to the community which supports numerous causes. JRS 5 years ago was a predominantly white crowd so yes, you advertise to who comes to your bar.